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Ndandidibana bam-Indian guy kwi POF. Ngomhla wokuqala, mna akusebenzi khange ke umhla kuye. Emva xa ndagqiba kwelokuba kumnika ithuba. Xa thina ebhalwe, siya kwenziwa uthando kwaye kusoloko waziva okulungileyo. Kodwa ubudlelwane ithathe kuphela iinyanga ezintathu, ngenxa yokuba kukho into embi kangako into eyenzekayo. Wam niece, owaye kwi-high school ngexesha, wayefuna ukuthenga yakhe kwaye abanye abahlobo bakhe Abane Jonga alcoholic drinks. Amaxesha amaninzi, ndathi hayi. Kodwa mna wanika. Wakhe mom mhlawumbi wakhe waxelela ndaba i-intellectual ukukhubazeka, esibizwa namnye wakhe ishishini. Nakuba kunjalo, ndazithenga drinks kwaye eyona imbi into ukuze kwenzeke kukuba yokuba wam niece onayo bagxothwa ukusuka esikolweni ngenxa wayengomnye ibambe besela kwi campus. Yena kanjalo drank kwi-phambili yakhe endala phakathi esikolweni ke kanjalo unqulo mosque. xa yakhe mom ndawufumana, wathabatha ngayo ngaphandle ngomhla kum. Mna ke kanjalo wabuza ukuba mna ke besela kwi-phambili yesikolo ngokunjalo. xa ndathi hayi, yena wouldn ukuba bakholelwe kum. ngoko ke, mna wachaza wathi Ewe, mna ke besela kwi-phambili yesikolo. Ngoko ke ngoko, mna ke akuvumelekanga emva mosque ngaphandle kuba Isiroma kwaye unqulo iinkonzo. Ngoko udade wathabatha yam yefowuni kude, kolona yam nabo kwaye ndawufumana ukuba ndandisele dating umntu ukuba ndandidibana ukusuka dating kwiwebhusayithi. Mna akusebenzi ukuba bavunyelwe ukwenza into, ngolohlobo. Esinye isizathu wathabatha yam yefowuni kude kwaba ngenxa mna azisa wam POF boyfriend endlwini kwaye wam nosy ummelwane snitched ukuba udade. Emva ngexesha, boyfriend yam wandixelela ukuba yeka texting kuye ngenxa yokuba yena akuthethi ukuba ufuna nayiphi na umdlalo weqonga. Ukuba lowo ngonaphakade yathetha nam kwakhona, udade uza umnxeba i-cops kwi kuye. Andizange weva evela kuye kwakhona. Xa ufuna umhla i-Indian guy, wena umhla usapho lwakhe ngokunjalo — kwa ukuba baya kuphila ngendlela eyahlukileyo lizwe. Ekuqalekeni ndandisele shocked nge njani ngokukhawuleza wayethetha malunga yokufumana watshata — kodwa onikiweyo yokuba ngabo ngokuqhelekileyo yokufumana watshata waza ke get ukwazi ngamnye enye, ukuze ke iingcaphephe understandable. Abazali bam ebhalwe kuba ezisixhenxe eminyaka phambi kokuba ifumene watshata, ngoko ke indlela yam ngu ngakumbi omnye thorough uphando. Ndingumntu omnyama i-american ibhinqa. Andithandi kanye kanye bayibize»dating,»kodwa mna zithe ngomgca eziliqela Indian abantu. enye kuphela yaba Plt-nyhuku, abanye kokuba immigrated njengoko ngabantu abadala. baye bonke kakhulu ezahluka-hlukileyo abantu kwaye thina zahlangana ezahlukeneyo contexts, nangona kwakukho isibini ngokufanayo imibandela: bonke xa kuqaliswayo approached nam kakhulu polite gentlemanly fashion kwaye ngamanye ngexesha umhla intlanganiso babeya kuba sexually demanding kwaye aggressive. kwabakho kanjalo xa umsindo ukuba mna resisted. enye indoda yeza kakhulu ekuthatheni raping nam yakhe isithuthi kwi parking ezininzi ifilim theater. kwaba kuphela ngenxa yokuba bonke commotion wam besilwa emva kutsalwe i-ingqalelo umntu ngaphandle ukuze abe imile. ukuba umntu othile wathi kum,»ingaba uyazi ukuba ngubani ndinguye.»(intsingiselo bakhe isimo kwi-India) xa ndiye ndiqhubeke resisting. ngoko ke, hayi kakhulu okulungileyo amava. Ndicinga ukuba Indian inkcubeko yi ifekta, ngokunjalo wam ethnicity. ngaloo inkcubeko, ngaphandle kokuba umntu ufumana westernized, umntu lowo ikhangeleka ngathi kum ingaba iqwalaselwe low-isimo, kwaye ayamkeleki kuba real dating okanye umtshato. kodwa ngokugqibeleleyo imiqathango njengoko a ngesondo injongo, ndiyaqonda. wam submissive demeanor ngokuqinisekileyo, akuthethi ukuba uncedo. njengoko umntu othe rhoqo wayemthanda Indian ukutya kuzo zonke ihlela, Indian wefilim (kwaye hayi, hayi nje Bollywood), Indian unguye, imbali, njalo-njalo, Ndiya kuba usoloko uhleli vula na khetha ka-ubudlelwane kunye Indian abantu. kodwa andikholelwa i-ndinovelwano ngu mutual ngelishwa. Kulungile, ndiza ukuqinisekisa ukuba asiyiyo yonke Indian guys bamele ukuba engalunganga. Kodwa ngoko ke, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ndinguye unlucky ngokwaneleyo ukuba ahlangane kuphela eyona imbi okkt kunokwenzeka. Mna kuba ebhalwe ngaphezu Indian guys kwaye bonke kuba efanayo uphawu. Thirsty kuba ngesondo kwaye kuphela ngesondo. Musa nyani ukuba azibandakanye kwi-i-yeemvakalelo zakho budlelwane. Omnye waba iintengiso umlawuli (yena ke watshata kodwa andiyenzanga siyazi ukuba de sibe waphula phezulu, ngoko ke, uyazi yintoni na uhlobo a jerk ukho), omnye waba projekthi inkokeli e Goldman Sachs (presumably yena ke kanjalo watshata kodwa wakhanyela ke, kuphela weza kuba ngesondo kwaye liked ukuba umkhosi wakhe manhood ingene emlonyeni wam ngaphandle kwemvume yam), omnye waba urhulumente esemthethweni (eyona imbi kubo bonke, wathi phantse raped me kanye, kakhulu materialistic), omnye waba a project manager okanye inkokeli e-NEC (ngesondo addict nge engalunganga ngesondo ubuchule), omnye waba KE trainer (boring kwaye kuphela liked ukuthetha malunga ngesondo. Barff), omnye waba ukusebenzela usapho lwakhe ushishino (mnandi kodwa kuphela liked ukuthetha malunga ngesondo kwaye thumela ngesondo pics okanye iividiyo. Thina). Mna kuba kanjalo kuhlangatyezwana nazo ezinye Indian guys abakhoyo boring, mna-iphakathi, ngesondo addicted, eshushu kwaye lovey yehobe ngenye imini kwaye babheka ghosting elandelayo mini. Ndiyaqonda ndandisele nje unlucky. Ndimele mhlawumbi qala ukuphepha nakuphi na Indian guys, kodwa akunyanzelekanga ukuba ufuna ukuba abe racist kwaye ndiza ngokuqinisekileyo mna nje akhange na zahlangana elungileyo omnye. Na ukuba mna ube ujonge ukuba kuphela umhla Indian guy. Kodwa ngoko ke, ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, thumbs phantsi. Mna kuphela ebhalwe omnye Indian-i-american guy — Punjabi — kuba precise kwaye mna uphumelele khange enze le mpazamo ngonaphakade kwakhona. Ndandisazi abancinane malunga zabo mindset kwaye indlela ngakulo abafazi. Kokuba kabini imigangatho xa oko iza xa a guy kwaye kufuneka kubekho inkqubela wabelane ngesondo. Waba ngomlomo ngendlela efanelekileyo abusive, ngoko ke uya kwenza twist ngayo phantsi phezulu ndizixelela kum waba joking. Yakhe ubudlelwane kunye noyise akusebenzi khange okulungileyo, ndiyakholwa, uyise wazi abancinane malunga naye kwaye mhlawumbi ingxamele kuye i-Indian umfazi kwi-e-India. Yena zange kukhankanywe malunga wam bukho nosapho lwakhe kwaye mhlawumbi zange avume. Wabiza enye abafazi»hoes»kananjalo wakhwaza watsho e nam uluntu ngokuba kum»stupid bitch». Kwaba ikakhulu malunga ngesondo, ebeya bonisa insecurities zakhe ngo esithi»kufuneka balele kunye ezininzi guys»mna suspect le yindlela uyise treats unina. Ezoyikekayo amava ukuba ndandingasakwazi kunyikima ngaphandle. Mna anayithathela ebhalwe Indian abantu kwaye mna watshata omnye kubo. enye mna watshata asikwazanga kugxila umzimba wam okanye ngesondo. Nguye highly intelligent, kwaye lowo ubomi ubomi bakhe. Yena hayi kwi»mna ulenze ntoni kusapho lwam nto ithi»yakhe relatives bambiza ngokuba Gundi mna xa oko ngenxa yakhe nabavukelayo indalo uya kuthatha nokukhathalelwa unina kwaye udade ukuthumela imali rhoqo ngenyanga. Yena akuthethi ukuba ngathi xa yakhe namanye amalungu osapho thetha crap ukuba unina, wathi ingundoqo wekhredithi, kakhulu sithande kwaye honest. Le ndoda ubeke kum kwi mantle njengoko ukuba ndiza a princess. Konke, ndiza ndonwabe kakhulu kwaye umxholo wam umtshato ukuba umyeni wam. Mna kuphela umhla kunye eli-Indian guy kanye. thina yadibana scruff. Nangona kunjalo, asikwazanga end phezulu njengoko nantoni na (bekunga ukuba wabelane ngesondo noba ukuba ufaka bemangalisiwe) ngenxa yokuba sifuna kuhlangatyezwana nazo kwi-non-ngesondo imeko. wam uluvo lwam, yena ke nje nawuphi na omnye umntu, kwaye ndifumana Indian guys ingaba sexy ngenxa yabo onzulu imigca enqamlezeneyo umbala le guy ngu ambalwa eminyaka younger ngaphezu kwam, kodwa ndiya ukufumana kwakhe handsome. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba khumbula malunga umzimba odor (njenge wonke umntu uthi), kodwa ndicinga ukuba yena smelled nje kakuhle. Fantastic. Kuqala, waba ngomnye wam tennis partners, elandelayo, waba bazalwana, umhlobo, ngoko saqalisa dating. Sasivuya kwi-high school, ngoko ke kwakungekho ngesondo thina igcine izandla, hugged, kwaye kissed. Waba nobubele, attentive, highly intelligent, kakhulu funny, kwaye incredibly okulungileyo-ujonge. Yena ngoku abahlala Senegal, besebenza data ulawulo e a bank. Ukho omnye wam fondest memories

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