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Ukuba baba ikhangela ngesishwankathelo yintoni engalunganga nge-Indian arranged umtshato indlela, ngokulula jonga ad oweza ngaphandle nje ezimbalwa emva kweentsuku. Kwaye ukuba phezulu kwayo yonke, oku kwenzeka ngendlela enye uninzi respected newspapers (I-Hindu) enye uninzi cosmopolitan izixeko kwi-i-India, Bengaluru. I-ad khuphela succinctly sishwankathela kwi-khusela ubungakanani amanqaku yonke into oko kukuthi iyama kwinkqubela phambili kweli lizwe kwaye ndonwabe marriages. I zithethwe ezinye uhlobo ad sele angered ezininzi kwaye kolawulo lwabo ulawulo ngokwasemthethweni ngoko. Ngaba wayecinga ukuba ‘Young Achievers ka-India’ kulindeleke ukuba ahlanganisane kwi — ‘Ngamazwe Ulutsha Day’ kwaye vie kuba eyona ‘indebegenericname iqabane lakho’, zonke ngexesha munching kwi ‘veg meal’ yenza wena umbuzo ibango ka-Bengaluru njengoko ‘chwechwa ungabonwacomment Intlambo’ ngokwayo. Yiyo le into young India ngenene ifuna. Yiyo le into IIM graduates, IAS amagosa kwaye entrepreneurs nyani. Ukuba ke, kubalulekile scary. Surprisingly, caste, nto engundoqo umqhubi ka-arranged marriages kwi-India waba okubhalwe kule abulala ka-misogynist kwaye classist iimfuno. Yenza nina nimangaliswe ukuba ephezulu echelons kuluntu lonke kuba eqale ukubona ngaphaya caste kwaye ndenza isimo kwaye iklasi zabo engundoqo barrier. Kodwa heee, ‘beautiful girls’ ingaba kuvunyelwe ngaphandle caste, iklasi kwaye lwesikhumbuzo iqukiwe. Siyazi ukuba wonke umntu ufuna enye a iqabane lakho ngubani accomplished kwaye financially iityuwadefault colour. Kodwa into malunga yeemvakalelo zakho, loluntu, yesitalato kwaye intellectual ukungqinelana. I ihlabathi ngu ngaphaya loluntu structures emntwini ekubeni wekhredithi indlu kwaye umfazi i-caretaker. I-India ifuna ngaphezulu young amadoda nabafazi abakhoyo supportive zabo partners kwaye tyhala kwabo ukuba azame ngcono endaweni nje ‘beautiful abafazi’ kwaye ‘wealthy husbands’. phantsi garb ‘I-Grand Wesizwe Young Achievers Matrimony Kuhlangana’ kufuneka yeka. Oku classic unobumba abaya kuthatha a kuma kuqala i-newspaper iimfuno ad revenues ukuba agcine kwi sika throat ihlabathi. I-umququzeleliicalimp sehlo, owaye lohlobo ‘umtshato bureau’ uncle kufuneka earn yakhe ingeniso ehlabathini ka-matrimony websites. Abazali obukhulu achievers ufuna eyona iqabane lakho ngokweentswelo zabo imigangatho. Ngoko ke, ngubani kuthatha yokuma. Oko ke young achievers kwabo abo kufuneka thatha kuma. Ukunxulumana kunye nomnye umntu egameni lakho amaphupha, iinjongo kwaye umnqweno. Yiya ngaphaya eziqhelekileyo kwaye fumana umntu abafanelekileyo yakho lwesikhumbuzo ebomini. Siya ku Bhetele nesiqingatha. al zinikelwe ukuba uyise ngaphaya oku sexist kwaye kasolusapho-ajenda kunye nokunika elinye iqonga abantu ukufumana ubomi partners. Sikholelwa ukuba kukho ngakumbi ukutshata kunokuba nje ingxowa — ‘beautiful umfazi’ okanye ‘otyebileyo umyeni’. I-India ifuna ngaphezulu young amadoda nabafazi abakhoyo kwi-ndonwabe kwaye silondolozekile budlelwane nabanye ngoko ke ukuba banako kuba productive zabo careers ukuphucula hlabathi siphila kulo

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