Kutheni ngoko ke nzima ukuya kuhlangana abantu baza kuba ezinzima budlelwane. Tshata Blaire Wedding Budlelwane Ingcebiso

Yima ikhangela ukugqibelela, ayikho

Yakho wedding mini yi ngenene isiganeko esikhethekileyo, ngoko ke kufuneka senze konke yakho amalungiselelo ozayo ixesha, ngoko ke wena musa t endKutheni ngoko ke nzima ukuya kuhlangana abantu baza kuba ezinzima budlelwane? Brace ngokwakho girlfriend nisolko kwi-kuba abanye nzima neenyaniso. Eneneni, alikwazi ukwahlula ukuba nzima ukuya kuhlangana abantu abakhoyo ikhangela a budlelwane, kodwa yintoni wena ngokwenza ukwenza ukuba kunokwenzeka. Nazi ezinye iincam ukunceda wena kufumana ubudlelane ukuba imisebenzi kuba kuni. Ewe, ikwenza khetha ka-thatha romance ngaphandle yonke into, kodwa ufuna ukuchaza into nguwe. Bhala phantsi traits nisolko ikhangela, ufuna umntu ukuba babelane adventures kunye okanye ingaba wena ikhangela uzinzo. Ukuba lento ayi malunga yintoni Umnu Ilungelo ikhangeleka ngathi kodwa malunga qualities ufuna kubo kuba, babo amaxabiso kwaye oko ufuna ukusuka ubomi. Ngoku ukuba uqala dating umntu kwaye nisolko awuqinisekanga ukuba ubudlelwane babe ngonaphakade yiya naphi na, jonga uluhlu lwakho ukubona ukuba baya kuhlangana iindlela ukuba ubufuna. Ewe, kuya ayi ukuba romanticcomment kodwa ingaba ikhangela Umnu Ekunene okanye Umnu Kunjalo Ngoku. Umnu Ilungelo kwaye Umnu Olugqibeleleyo ingaba u kakhulu izinto ezahlukeneyo kwaye kufuneka bafunde ukuba ngokukhawuleza okanye lento yonke dating nto ke get fernández. Okokuqala, AKUKHO NAMNYE ugqibelele kwaye preconceived notions ungaya ye-olugqibeleleyo iqabane lakho uyazi ukuba wonke mde, mnyama, otyebileyo kwaye handsome fairyname ibali, ayikho. Ukuba lizisa omnye painful incopho olugqibeleleyo kuwe akuthethi ukuba kuthetha ukuba yena uziva ngathi usasebenzisa ngendlela efanayo. Kufuneka kuba ethanda ukwamkela ukuba kwaye yiya kwi.

Wonke umntu kwaye ndithetha WONKE umntu wenziwe kwenzakalisa kwaye kokuba zabo intliziyo alaphukanga, kwaye kubalulekile horrible.

Oko angenza ufuna thatha okokuba ngalo lonke budlelwane nto kodwa ukuba ufuna a budlelwane, nawe futhi ke kufuneka ufake i-pint ka-Ben Jerry ke kude, tsala phezulu yakho enkulu kubekho inkqubela panties kwaye get emva phandle phaya kwaye kuhlangana abantu. Dating kwaye yokufumana phandle phaya ukuhlangabezana abantu abatsha ngu intimidating, kodwa dibanisa attitude ngokuqinisekileyo uphumelele khange kwenzakalisa. Nibe kuhlangana abanye mnandi abantu enye indlela. Ukuba ufuna ukugcina unye yakho intloko ukuba ukhe ubene zange ke kuhlangana umntu uya kuba mna-ekuzalisekiseni isiprofetho. Yiya elikufutshane jonga kwaye thatha ixesha elide kakhulu jonga, ingaba eyona ungenza njalo. Ukuba impendulo yakho ngu nantoni na ngaphantsi i-emphatic ewe, ngoko ke lixesha ukuba senze umsebenzi kwi nani. Phambi yelling iqala malunga njani shouldn ukuba kufuneka utshintshe ngokwakho nje ukutsala umntu yima lilapha.

Dating yi esihogweni ka kakhulu na umsebenzi enze udliwano-ndlebe, ngaphezu nabani na ufuna admit.

Ingaba bonisa ukuya kwi-i-enze udliwano-ndlebe kwi-pajamas? Esihogweni hayi. Beka kwi-lincinane, qala ukufumana ezinye rhoqo basebenzise, get yakho iinwele kwenziwa kwaye dress kuba impumelelo. Ukuba ukhe ubene hayi kanye kanye a fashionista, ukuze ke kulungile mhlawumbi kuba umhlobo oko kukuthi, ukufumana kwabo ukunceda wena chonga ngaphandle abanye flattering dating iingubo. Ukuba nawe futhi ke phandle, ngomhla okanye elinye loluntu isiganeko umboniso, ngokwakho kwi-eyona kunokwenzeka ukukhanya. Nisolko ezingayi kuhlangana abantu ehleli yakho living room ayithethi ukuba umsebenzi ukuba indlela. I-phi kwaye njani kuhlangana abantu abatsha ngu umcimbi of personal preference. Kukho ezinye iindawo njenge iinkwenkwezi, nightclubs njalo-njalo. apho abantu bamele kude kakhulu anomdla a hook phezulu kwe ngabo a budlelwane, ngoko ke ngabo lousy iindawo kuhlangana a guy. Ukuba ke wathi, cinga into yakho imisetyenzana yokuzonwabisa ingaba kwaye qala ukusuka apho.

Nibe nje ukufumana umntu endaweni abo ugqibelele

Musa woyikayo ukuzama izinto ezintsha kwaye ungakhe uzame-intanethi dating. Kuba kakhulu careful. Kukho ezininzi mnandi kukho abantu abakufutshane njengathi kuni, abo bafuna ukuya kuhlangana umntu. Kukho ngamandla ifekta kodwa ke ukusoloko ukhuseleko conscious. Kufuneka kuko ke sebenzisa kwabo. Kuqala imihla kusenokuba zonke iintlobo ezininzi ezonakeleyo awkward, kodwa iindaba ezimnandi kukuba akunyanzelekanga yiya kwi umhla wesibini. Kuqala imihla kuba zonke iintlobo ezininzi ezonakeleyo okulindelweyo kwaye pressures, ukwenza yonke into kakhulu ngaphantsi awkward ngo nje ndihamba kuba ikofu. Kukho akukho bulgaria robul ngaphandle ngubani ukubhatala kwaye akukho ebelilindelwe ka ekubeni ukwenza incoko esilandelayo iiyure ezimbini xa ufuna awkwardly zama hayi jonga ngamnye enye. I-unye wokuqala umhla ayi bekhusi umntu njengoko enokwenzeka umyeni imathiriyali kodwa ukubona ukuba ufumane enye kwaye ngokwenene njengaye ngamnye enye. Ukuba ukhe ubene lucky ngokwaneleyo ukuhlangabezana indoda yakho amaphupha ngomhla wokuqala umhla okulungileyo kuwe, wena nje uphumelele dating lottery. Uzimisele ukuthabatha asazanga ezininzi frogs phambi yakho proverbial Prince Charming iza noku. Jonga ezinye imihla kusebenza ngaphandle kodwa uninzi uphumelele khange. Phambi kwenu nika ngaphakathi urge ukuba phoselani kwi Bridget Jones-bhanyabhanya kwaye kudla umkhenkce cream ngqo kwi carton. Ukwamkela ukuba oku kuza kwenzeka. Xa kufuneka ahlangane ilungelo umntu, uya kuphumla nje kuba storying wena yakho girlfriends laugh malunga e brunch. Ladies yima hunting kwi-packs nisolko uzama ukuhlangabezana umntu kuwuthabatha phantsi a gazelle. Amadoda nawo onke efanayo insecurities ukuba awufuni, kwaye culturally babe.

ngxi stuck ngokwenza i-ecela ngaphandle.

Ngoko ke, ozolisayo guys iya kuba hesitant ukuba indlela wena xa nisolko nge pack yakho girlfriends, ukwaliwa sucks ukwaliwa kwi-phambili a indimbane kusenokuba umphefumlo crushing. Ukufumana ezinye imisebenzi ukuze cater kancinci ngakumbi ukuba umntu.

Okubaluleke uyonwabele ngayo, dating kusenokuba fun, kwaye ungabona ukuba ahlangane abantu abatsha kwaye yenza abanye okulungileyo abahlobo enye indlela.

Musa ukuthatha ngokwakho kakhulu seriously, yiba nomonde kwaye kuya kwenzeka.