Indlela Kuhlangana kunye Umntu, Ukuba uthe Sele Umntwana Usapho kwaye budlelwane nabanye

Kwi-abantwana babo a uluvo mashishini

Ubomi akusebenzi ukungena kwi-sikhokelo somgaqo-kwendlela codes kwaye imicimbi yayo ukuba imilo-wonke uluvo lwakheKwaye rhoqo ukongeza enye oomama waqalisa kubonakala omnye kooyise. Akukho nto ezingachanekanga okanye engalunganga - kuyinto inyaniso. Nangona kunjalo, xa usenza kuhlangana kunye lo mntu, esi sigqibo sinokuba kakhulu complicate ubomi kwaye ibonakale nkqu ngakumbi umdla kunokuba ungathanda.

Kwaye le foundation, trust, nako withstand kakhulu

Ukuba umntwana sele khumbula unina, ngokwaneleyo ukuze umenze impression xa intlanganiso.

Ukwenza oku kwangaphambili ukuba ukubonisana umntu, ukufumana phandle njani uyakwazi ngakumbi psychological umzobi a baby, oko kukuthi, lakhe uphawu, tastes, uluhlu lwezinto, ngubani lowo likes kwaye yintoni ayinako ukuma. Ukuba umntwana wakhumbula unina, umsebenzi wakho kukuba enobunzima nge-i-ukulandelelana magnitude. I-eyona imbi meko - xa yena, zikhumbula umfanekiso we-absent umama, idealizes ngayo ngokuhamba kwexesha. I worse yena wakhumbula ngayo, ngakumbi generously owonga ngalo qualities. Ukuphumelela enjalo ukhuphiswano akunakwenzeka, kwi-siseko, musa nkqu zama. Contrasting ngokwakhe absent umama - ezaziwayo disastrous kunjalo. Ezona favorable imeko - casual acquaintance kwi ezimeleyo territory. Kwaye eyona ndlela ingcono - iinkampani apho abanye abantu bakhona. Apho kufuneka uqwalaselwe a clever msebenzi umntwana ke ingqondo - xa umntwana ubona kunye noyise omnye umfazi, lowo uthelekisa yona a ilahlekile umama. Ukuba zininzi, kwiziganeko eziliqela (nangona akusoloko, kunjalo) unyana okanye intombi zama ngendima yabo umama, njengoko na umntwana unconsciously ufuna ukuba uzalise usapho. Ezinjalo ukhuphiswano ufuna iselwa capable - involve kuye kwi-umdlalo, angenise ukuba umntwana wakho (xa ikho). Ukuba abantwana ukwenza abahlobo, ubalo, nesiqingatha le ngxaki isonjululwe. Ngexesha lokuqala umntu akazange exert obvious imiqondiso ingqalelo kwi-kid, kuyimfuneko ukuze hayi provoke i-jealousy umntwana. Ukuba, nangona kunjalo, akunjalo lokurhoxisa asazanga kwi cheek kwintlanganiso. Musa ukufuna ngoko nangoko imposiso yorhwebo lwangaphakathi zabo uthando umntwana, ingakumbi ukuba ayisekho. Kokukhona ebalulekileyo kukuba ukuphumelela yakhe intlonipho, ingqwalasela, kwaye ekugqibeleni - friendship kwaye trust. Mhlawumbi ngoku abanye baya cinga - 'ngoko ke ndidinga kuyo. 'Eneneni, yonke into kuxhomekeke kangakanani apho kufuneka kanye kanye le ndoda. Ukuba kunzima kukunceda kakhulu kuyo, ngoko ke kuya kuba oko.