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Kukho izigidi ezingama-unmarried abadala e-United States kuphelaXa kungekho ndlela ukulinganisa precisely zingaphi abo bamele zayo, romantically unattached abantu, yindawo ekhuselekileyo ukuthi kukho izigidi ezininzi abo kuwela ukuba udidi. Ngabo literally zonke jikelele kwethu, kodwa uninzi omnye abafazi ingaba e a ilahleko njengoko apho ukuba badibane nabo.

Isitshixo yenza nkulu yakho chances intlanganiso umntu othile apho ufuna ukufumana ngokwakho kukugcina amehlo enu vula kwaye yakho akhokele (omabonakude phantsi.).

Uzimisele ukwenza iliso uqhagamshelane, ncuma kwaye ndithi molweni.

Nesiqingatha idabi ka-spontaneously intlanganiso umntu njengoko sihamba malunga yakho mhla uya vula ukuba malunga nenkqubo yolawulo olumanyanisiweyo imfuza ke eyenzekayo.

Musa ukuba zonke izizathu kutheni intlanganiso umntu uphumelele khange kwenzeka - kugxila amathuba zonke jikelele kuba kulungile ukuba kwenzeka kuwe. Thatha isithuba ukusuka kwi-smartphone yakho, umphezulu osongiweyo okanye incwadi kwaye uqhankqalazo phezulu incoko nge mfo traveler. Wonke umntu (othe umqhubi ke isifundo) kuphela phezulu kumgca kwi-DMV e abanye incopho kwaye wonke umntu ufumana okruqukileyo. Brighten umntu ngu mhla.

Naliphi na iqela umsebenzi kunye kwezo meko kuba kolonwabo embarrassment laughter uza bond kuwe.

Golf izifundo ingaba ingozi enkulu kutyalo-mali ka-ixesha imali.

Lokuqhuba orenji, kwesinye isandla, ingaba lula kakhulu, cheaper kwaye bakholisa ukuba abe ngaphezu loluntu.

Hardware stores ingaba famous kuba ekubeni pickup amachaphaza, kodwa abekho kuphela stores apho abantu-shop. Gcina ngeliso ngaphandle ixesha elizayo nisolko picking phezulu ukuze entsha iselula okanye inqwelo kuba glasses. Ukuba ungathanda ngamnye enye emva yokufumana super sweaty kwaye lifting nzima izinto, wena nje babe kuba elizayo kunye. Ukuba unengxaki dog kwaye uya kuba dog kwaye yakho izinja njenge ngamnye enye, nisolko halfway apho. Ehamba yakho dog (okanye naye ehamba yakhe) enye indlela enkulu kuhlangana abantu.

Ngokubanzi ibhinqa-dominated, kodwa ke precisely kutheni abanye abantu bathabathe phezulu yoga ukuba begin kunye.

Iqabane lakho yoga, nabani na. Ukuba ungummi solo moviegoer, uza ndawo enye solo moviegoers. Uqhankqalazo phezulu incoko ngexesha nisolko ukukhetha yakho bhanyabhanya okanye ukuthenga yakho popcorn. Mhlawumbi yena ke nje makhaya, kodwa mhlawumbi hayi - patrons bakholisa ukuba abe chattier ngenxa yokuba kukho abaninzi kangaka solo diners. Lo ngumsebenzi omkhulu qala. Uthando conquers zonke rivalries. Ngokungafaniyo rhoqo bar besela, lento iqela umsebenzi, kwaye wonke umntu ingxamele friendlier njengoko ekhasa jikelele kwi iqhubela phambili. Ukubonelelwa abantu esiba manicures kwaye pedicures. Ibenze bazive wamkelekile iqala nge-phezulu incoko. Nto eliphezulu kakhulu usamuel. Nisolko sele ehleli kuwo ukususela kwangaye - babe ngokunjalo ncuma kwaye ndithi molweni. Ukuba ngaba uyakuthanda iwayini, lo olugqibeleleyo ithuba kuba abanye iwayini kwaye uxoxe ekubeni abanye iwayini kunye umntu intriguing. Ngoko ke njengoko ixesha elide 'icacile' ingaba wamkelekile (oko phantse rhoqo ebolekiweyo), uza ngokuqinisekileyo kuhlangana umntu omtsha.

Kwaye mhlawumbi umntu othile.

Ukuba ngaba uyakuthanda unguye, okanye ukhe ubene anomdla ethile exhibit, lo ngumsebenzi omkhulu ithuba kuba ufuna ukuya kuhlangana umntu likeminded kwi-encinane iqela sicwangciso.

Abaninzi mifanekiso openings ingaba vetshe malunga socializing kunokuba unguye, ngoko ke ngu ezilungileyo kwindawo ukuya kuhlangana umntu ubukhe musa bathanda unguye. Ukuba ukhe ubene invited ukuya phambi koshicilelo omtsha restaurant okanye kwi bar uluntu lwakho, uhambe. Nawe zange ndiyazi ukuba ngubani abahlobo abahlobo baya kuba, kwaye abantu jika ngaphandle kwi-droves kuba ezi ziganeko. Ukuba ufaka kunye omkhulu ngokwaneleyo ifeni ka-faka-bhanyabhanya apha, liye ezinzulwini zobusuku ngaba ukujonga, kufuneka nje babe get noku. Kuba theater ifeni, oku enkulu, indlela kuhlangana ezinye ifeni abo onomdla kuso ebona uluhlu olutsha upcoming yenza. Nisolko strolling. nisolko iyama apha kwaye yokukhangela apho.

Kwaye ngoko ingaba ilanlekile babantu.

Nje ndithi molweni. Ngaba ukhe ubene ilinde kuphakamisa, ethabatha a snowboarding isifundo okanye chilling kwi-bafake, kukho ingaba plenty abantu ukuba bathethe kwaye ezisebenza ngayo. Nkqu ukuba ongazange rowed phambi, chances ingaba yakho isixeko sele kuyo emanzini club kwaye introductory emanzini iiklasi. Ngaphezulu i-mali ka-ixesha, ngeenzame kwaye imali kunokuba emanzini, kodwa ukuba ufuna ukuba ujonge kuba umntu abo likes sailing.

Apho kufuneka khona.

Kulula ukuba ezisebenza nge yakho mfo diners (kwaye rhoqo bayakhuthazwa) xa nisolko ehleli ecaleni-yi-icala ngomhla omkhulu itheyibhile. Musa kuba ukuba neentloni. Kukho inkqubo uncwadi, 'fun isebenzisa' nothando lwenene races kuba wonke umntu ukusuka beginners ukuba marathoners. Ukufumana enye ukuba suits wena yenza entsha, umhlobo okanye ezimbini. Ukuba ungathanda umxholo lemiyezo, ungathatha bonke ukuba ixesha lokulinda kumgca kwaye kuhlangana umntu ezama efanayo thrills njengoko kufuneka. Ukuba ufuna belong na i-intanethi uluntu ngokusekelwe umsebenzi wakho okanye yakho umdla, kuba ngomhla we-ujonge kuba amadoda babambisa yakho iliso aze angenise ngokwakho. Uninzi izixeko kwi-U. kuba karhulumente kuluntu, iigadi, kwaye uninzi abo iigadi kuba iziganeko kuba neighborhood.

Abo akuthethi ukuba ufuna umntu abo iyakhula yakhe owakhe iitumato.

Wobulali abahlali milling malunga, isampulu wobulali breads kwaye cheeses olugqibeleleyo ithuba kuba loluntu kwi-casual sicwangciso. Ilanlekile abantu bathabathe imihla ukuze concerts, kodwa kuxhomekeke mthetho, abaninzi kuhamba kunye nabahlobo okanye nkqu co-abasebenzi. Ngu relaxed-bume ukuba incoko (kwaye nkqu umdaniso) nge-i-nabafana stranger. Indimbane ngu kuyo kunye, kuba ngcono okanye kuba worse.

Commiserate kwaye okanye nje nge nabani na catches yakho lingqina.

Xa abantu ujoyinela a bottomless mimosa brunch, baya ukuba ucwangciso ukufumana ethambileyo kwaye kuba kukho ixesha elithile. Ukuba ke ilanlekile ixesha kuba flirtatious iliso uqhagamshelane kuwo yakho blueberry pancakes. Ukuba ungummi emidlalo fan (kwa casual omnye), kuyo emidlalo bar ngu elikhulu kwindawo ukuya kuhlangana abantu, ingakumbi kuba omkhulu umdlalo. Ingaba sekhe mbasa honing wakho wonke ukuthetha izakhono? Toastmasters kuhlanganisa kunye entrepreneurs, ushishino executives kwaye nabani na ongomnye wanting ukuba olugqibeleleyo ukuba ubuchule kwi supportive-bume. Ukuba ufuna belong na elinolwazi amaqela okanye iimbumbano, yengingqi yakho iintlanganiso ziindleko ezilungileyo kwindawo ukuya kuhlangana abantu abatsha (kuquka abantu). Lwezentlalo uncwadi, yengingqi yakho Y, museum, kwithala leencwadi okanye bookstore ingaba nje ezimbalwa imizekelo iindawo eziza kuba ithetha kwaye readings. Chonga omnye kunye indoda nomfazi isibheno kwaye khona. Ezi ezifumanekayo kuba yonke into ukususela coding ukuba photography. Kwaye baya kunika ingxelo ezibalaseleyo ithuba ukunxulumana kunye omnye yakho classmates. Omdala fitness iindidi Fumana sizathu kuwe care malunga kwaye volunteer ixesha lakho - nawe zange ndiyazi ukuba ngubani okanye abe volunteering ecaleni kwakho.

Bethenga a ticket ukuya kuyo fundraiser okanye gala kusibeka kuwe ngendlela efanayo igumbi njengoko ezinye philanthropic imiphefumlo.

Ukuhlola yengingqi yakho park okanye etafile aqala kwi-i-waseka iqela hike.

Okanye ufuna (flirtatiously) umgqomo intetho yakhe iqela

Ehamba kwaye uthetha - ngu enkulu, indlela get ukwazi ngamnye enye. Inkqubo yokumisela ngu-casual kwaye loluntu kwaye fun. Dibanisa, ufumane ukuba badle, basele, eziya imisebenzi ukuze wonke umntu enjoys. Ungakwazi ukwenza i-multi-day festival okanye i-kuzimasa kuba ngenye imvakwemini. Nangeyiphina indlela, kukho ilanlekile babantu ukuba abe efunyenweyo kwaye vibe inje eyobuhlobo kwaye loluntu. Yinto eyenzekayo ukubonelelwa ukuba kwi-intanethi budlelwane nabanye ngabo ekuqaleni kwiqonga loluntu imigangatho - ukuba umfanekiso, izimvo okanye ngeposi catches iliso lakho, musa ukuba neentloni kuba malunga reaching ngaphandle ukuba umsebenzisi ufuna izinto onomdla kuzo. Nokuba ngaba ufuna ukujonga amkele petr, volunteer kunye pets okanye nkqu thatha petr imfundo iklasi, uzakufumana ezinye izilwanyana lovers apha. Ingakumbi ukuba ungathanda ukuba ahlangane umntu onjalo ukholo okanye zomoya beliefs, iinkonzo kananjalo loluntu iziganeko ingaba omkhulu iindawo kuhlangana umntu. Ewe, weddings ingaba kwaye ezilungileyo kwindawo ukuya kuhlangana abantu. Ke idla lula ukuchonga omnye okkt ngenxa yokuba uza kuba seated e yakho itheyibhile. Zonke kufuneka senze ngu peruse 'Amadoda Noqhagamshelwano' candelo Craigslist ukubona ukuba bangaphi abantu bamele pining emva kokuba umfazi wabona kwi subway ukuba ntsasa. Oku omnye ngu-a no-brainer, kodwa ukugcina yakho akhokele ngu qhosha. Musa kuba ulingeka yi free wi-fi yokuchitha lakho lonke, tyelela ku Facebook. Kule meko unye ye shooting izinto ngomhla ekujoliswe kuwo nezibheno kuwe, uzakufumana ilanlekile babantu abo bacinga iyonwabisa kakhulu. Kukho ilanlekile ka-kanye dads phandle phaya, kwaye kanjalo abazinikeleyo uncles' godfathers njalo-njalo. abo basemazweni kwiikhosi.

Ufuna ukuya kuhlangana i-entrepreneur.

Usharedi-ofisi zizalisiwe izithuba kunye nabo, kwaye baya idla kuba malunga kunye namaqonga iziganeko.

Njengoko ixesha elide njengoko wena musa khumbula ukuba ukutshaya, nkqu non-smokers unako kuba basele kwezi predominantly indoda hangouts. Ilanlekile babantu uthando ngokukhawuleza iimoto. Kwaye ngokukhawuleza amahashe. Ukuba wenza njengoko kulungile, lento elikhulu ndawo kuba ukuba badibane nabo. Abadlali ababini, omnye, uthando - tennis kuko konke malunga budlelwane nabanye. Akukho mcimbi yakho ubuchule umphakamo, kukho ilanlekile ka-amathuba baxubane kunye nezinye club amalungu. Ukuba ufuna ukungena okanye inqaku isimemo ukuba amalungu-kuphela club, uzakufumana kubo kuba i-ndawo ilula ukuya kuhlangana abantu abatsha xa enjoying le club ke oluntu. Ukubonelelwa couples unee co-ed baby ikhephu, kunye nabahlobo kabawo kuba kwiikhosi. Nkqu ukuba ukhe ubene lwabafundi, uninzi campuses ziqulathe-wonke izithuba kwaye wonke iziganeko, eziya zonke iindawo ezinkulu ukuhlangabezana abantu. Nkqu ukuba yakho esikolweni iintsuku ingaba ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, emva kwenu, khumbula - abafundi kuza kuyo yonke iminyaka, njengoko ingaba professors. Ngaba ukhe ubene isebenzisa igunya, lounging, uthatha i-hamba okanye abebezimase isiganeko, lemiyezo ingaba relaxing izithuba ukuba ukutsala a enkulu iyantlukwano yabantu. Hayi kuphela ingaba kwi relaxed loluntu isicwangciso, kodwa kufuneka kwi lula 'kwi' ukuba bathethe nabani na umenyiwe omnye umntu.

Yengingqi yakho convention umbindi okanye isiganeko isithuba uza kusenokwenzeka ukuba umamkeli a ngezixhobo ezahlukeneyo expos.

Ukufumana enye ukuba nezibheno kuwe kwaye kuhamba kunye injongo intlanganiso entsha guy. Kukho kunjalo meetup amaqela kuba icacile, kodwa kukho kanjalo meetup amaqela wonke conceivable hobby nenzala. Khangela ngaphandle okkt ukuba isibheno kuwe. Ingaba unayo indoda ebomini bakho kokufuna isipho? Buza aph guy ngubani kanjalo inqwelo yakhe kuba uluvo ukuba tie. Noba ngu a carpool umbutho ngokuthi uluntu lwakho okanye eyenziwa emsebenzini, okanye usharedi ride inkonzo, nawe zange ndiyazi ngubani okanye abe hitching a ride loo mini. Nangona sikwimeko yoqoqosho enzima Muddlers, Spartan Races kwaye ngathi kuba indoda enkulu isibheno - ukuba ukhe ubene a fitness enthusiast (okanye bazimisele ukuqeqesha kuba isiganeko), aba ngabo omkhulu iindawo kuhlangana abantu.

Khetha yakho ndonwabe iiyure strategically - yekholeji bar ndonwabe ilixa kunye dollazi ingongoma ka-tequila babe okanye zingangahambelani yakho icandelo lomboniso.

Ukuba akunjalo, fumana ukuba omnye caters ukuba i-ubudala, emva-umsebenzi indimbane. Abo imigca ingaba ixesha elide. Yiya ozayo kwaye uqhankqalazo phezulu incoko kunye umntu othe ikhangeleka umdla xa wena linda. Ukuba ufuna anayithathela ngonaphakade kwizifundo a kuphila bonisa taping, uyazi ukuba kukho izinto ezininzi lokulinda jikelele kwaye amandla ngu phezulu.

I-olugqibeleleyo elifihlakeleyo kuhlangana umntu omtsha.

Gyms ziindleko classic chola-phezulu ndawo, kodwa proliferation ka-omabonakude ugcina abantu abaninzi ngakumbi kwi-focused zabo screens ngexesha labo workouts kunayo nantoni na enye into. Yaphula emaphandleni. Ungasebenzisa kwakhona yenza iliso uqhagamshelane kwaye ncuma ngexesha nisolko emamele ukuba oyithandayo ingoma.

Chances ingaba kufuneka kuyo bar ukuba abaququzeleli a weekly okanye ngenyanga trivia busuku.

Kuza kunye iqela okanye ukungena ekhoyo iqela kwaye azibandakanye kwi-kancinci eyobuhlobo ukhuphiswano. Musa xana ukuba flirt. Francesca yi uthando kwaye ukuzonwabisa coach kuba icacile. Uyakwazi babambisa wakhe njengoko rhoqo ingcali bust kwi-NBC ke Namhlanje Bonisa, kwaye kwi Hodi Bonisa kwi SiriusXM ke Namhlanje Bonisa Radio isiqhagamshelanisi. Kufuneka abanye uncedo kwintlanganiso ukunxulumana kunye nabantu.