Abantu ke Igumbi - Uthando kunye Kubudlelwane Iingcebiso ezivela Umntu kuba Abafazi Zokugcina - Patti Uyayazi Patti Stanger

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Kwaye endleleni, mna appreciate wonke-imeyili ukuze owakhe ithunyelwe indlela yam.

Kwaye yintoni okunqanda intliziyo yam kukuba ngoko ke, abaninzi kubo basemazweni budlelwane nabanye ukuba ayisasebenzi akhonza nabo kwaphela. Kwaye isizathu sokuba babe sikwi ndawo ezi budlelwane nabanye ngu ngenxa yokuba izinto koyika yokuba yedwa. Uyazi, ndinga anayithathela enesihloko le 'Ezintathu Imiqondiso usenama-Uthando Lwakho Eks. 'Ngenxa yokuba uthando kwaye hate ingaba ngamnye i-utshintsho lwendawo ngokwenqanawaname ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ekuthatheni enye, ukuba ucinga ngayo. Ndifuna ukuya kwiminyaka eli namhlanje kunye zonke kuni ngenxa yokuba kukho kakhulu kuni ngaphandle apho bathe ezininzi umsindo kwiintlanganiso i-eks ebomini bakho, kwaye kuba abanye kuni ke echaphazela ezininzi ezahluka-hlukileyo amanqanaba obomi bakho.